First, let’s talk about the times where a remarkable life actually does carry some appeal.
I once saw this advertisement for a men’s magazine with the text Live The Interesting Life written over a scene of a funeral. Gathered around the casket were presumably the family of the deceased, a rugby team, some Buddhist monks, a mime, a few guys in kilts with bagpipes, a chef, a pair of geishas, and a bike gang. Whoever this guy was, he had a remarkable life. It seemed like he had a lot of fun.
Most people don’t realize it but life often throws us thousands of discreet invitations to go on quirky side quests that we often miss.
I have a tendency to embrace quirky adventures when I get the opportunity. A little while ago, I decided to run a marathon, and then decided that marathon should be in the epicenter of running: Kenya. The goal isn’t to impress others for the sake of vanity. My race splits were definitely not impressive. The goal is often to amuse myself, to see life differently by going way beyond the default, and to meet some interesting people along the way.
The reality is that each of us only gets to use one playable character in our lives: ourselves. Life itself is a pretty wild gift, and whenever you take the time to think of all the crazy and improbable things that needed to happen in order for there to be a universe that could host our planet… a planet that could sustain life long enough for the exact specific combination of your ancestors to meet in order to lead to you… its mindblowing. It never gets old. And it makes you not want to squander that gift.
A book or a movie doesn’t really go anywhere if its characters don’t have any sort of goal or objective.
And you know what? Life gets a lot more depth when you decide to live intentionally.
Whenever you pick a big dream, goal, or mission and pursue it wholeheartedly, so many pieces of life fall into place. It’s like we weren’t just put here to recycle calories and oxygen, but we have storylines and plots just waiting for us. And whether that takes the form of doing something good for the world, something really challenging that inspires others, or some combination, the result is an actually remarkable life.