Create from your scars, not your wounds.
Surely you’ve heard this expression before, yeah? It’s one I always find so useful.
While both are marks of pain, there’s a difference between something that’s completed a process of healing and one that’s still raw. When you create from that unsettled place, you often lack the perspective needed to create something that goes beyond catharsis.
Even worse, trying to create using inspiration from an ongoing issue in your life could create unnecessary pressures around that thing, derailing your ability to properly heal.
What is the risk for fallout?
One thing about sharing our stories is that they rarely involve just ourselves. They interweave our relationships, you know? Those complicated things.
I don’t need to strain too hard to explain how a story painting someone in a less than favorable way could damage a relationship.
Of course if another person harmed you in a way that you just need to name, that’s one thing. But it’s another when your audience feels like they’re trapped listening to one side of an unresolved argument.
And careful around sharing stories that might not be yours to share.
You can always call up a person and see if the creative process might be inviting some relational healing, if you want to go the route of seeking their blessing.
Or, you know, you could just come up with an alias for them.